Understanding The Prophet's Life
From Issue: 901 [Read full issue]
Personal Grievance
The Prophet (peace be upon him) wanted to ensure that no one should have a personal grievance against him. If he inadvertently hit or knocked someone, he would offer that they retaliate. Abu Said al-Khudri reports that the Prophet was cutting something when a man came close to him. The Prophet accidently hit him with a stick he had in his hand, and caused a cut in the man's face. The Prophet said: "Come on, have your retaliation." The man said: "I forego it, Messenger of God." [Abu Dawud, Ahmad]
Some of the Prophet's Companions used such occasions to demonstrate their love of the Prophet who was dearer to them than their own children. Usayd ibn Hudayr of the Ansar was a cheerful person with a good sense of humour. Once he was speaking to some people who were with the Prophet and made them laugh. The Prophet poked him in his side with his finger. Usayd said: "You have hurt me." The Prophet said: "Then take your turn and poke me." Usayd said: "You are wearing a shirt and I have none." The Prophet lifted his shirt to allow him to retaliate, but Usayd hugged him and kissed his side. He said: "This is indeed what I want." [Baihaqi]
Compiled From:
"Muhammad: His Character and Conduct" - Adil Salahi, pp. 156, 157