Friday Nasiha

Al-Baqarah \r\n (The Cow)
\r\n Chapter 2: Verse 165

...Those \r\n who have Iman, are intense in their Love for Allah!...

Commentary:

This is how Allah describes the true believers- i.e. those \r\n who Love Allah more than anything else and who make Allah their first \r\n priority.

The verse doesn't say, that one must love Allah only. \r\n Love is a blessing given to us by Allah and is manifested in many aspects \r\n of life. In Islam, however, it must be foremost for Allah, our Creator, \r\n and Merciful Sustainer.

What is Love?

Perhaps it cannot be defined in terms which adequately \r\n reflect its nature and importance in a person's life. It is not possible \r\n to define it by a formula in a manner we define a scientific fact. But \r\n still each one of us knows what love is and can tell from our experience \r\n the powerful force that it is.

It is the overpowering force in life. It captivates you, \r\n it grips you, it moves you and you are prepared to do anything for the \r\n sake of it. Once love is there, what you do is not something which has \r\n to be imposed upon you, because you need imposition only for things you \r\n do not love.

Nature of True Iman & \r\n Love for Allah

Iman (faith) is something which must penetrate \r\n deep into your heart and generate an intense love for Allah and His Prophet \r\n (peace be upon him), more than anything else. Unless this happens, you \r\n cannot experience the real Iman.

To develop this love for Allah does not require us to \r\n retire to or seclude ourselves in a monastery / masjid. This love makes \r\n us do our duty to Allah, as His representatives, while we are out in the \r\n street, at home or in the office. With this love, we live as servants \r\n of Allah, everywhere willingly making every sacrifice required of us. \r\n In fact, it propels us to share actively in the service of Allah's other \r\n creatures. True love of Allah makes one care for people and their needs.

Your Barometer: Salah

Whether or not you have that love is something only for \r\n you to examine closely. If you love someone, one of your most intense \r\n desires will be to get closer to that person. In Islam, there are several \r\n ways of getting closer to Allah, foremost of which is Salah (daily \r\n prayers).

Once you are praying to Him, you are in front of Him, \r\n you are near to Him, you are speaking to Him, you are responding to Him \r\n in gratitude, and you are asking for His forgiveness. Prayer is not just \r\n a ritual in which you go through certain postures. The love generated \r\n through Salah, by submitting your soul exclusively to Allah, is like a \r\n seed which, as it grows, envelops the entire personality!

[Taken from "In the \r\n Early Hours" by Ustadh Khurram Murad, pp. 63-64]

Expressing \r\n Condolence

"A \r\n Muslim who consoles other Muslims suffering from a calamity will be awarded \r\n a dress of dignity by Allah on the day of Judgement."
\r\n [Ibn Majah, Al-Baihaqi]

Condolence alleviate the sense of grief that \r\n befalls the family of a deceased. This is achieved by encouraging them \r\n to remain composed and to trust in Allah's great reward. Condolence includes \r\n praying for the help and pardon of the deceased, as they will receive \r\n the benefit of such prayers. Condolence is a sincere expression of one's \r\n sympathy and sorrow at these stressful moements.

[taken from "Islamic \r\n Manners" by Shaykh Abdul Fattah Abu Ghudda, p. 97]

[Based \r\n on the advices given by Ustadh Khurram Murad, may Allah have mercy on \r\n his soul, to his family in his last will.]

Protect Your Tongue

I have found just one \r\n way of preventing oneself from falling headlong into hell: just keep your \r\n mouth shut about others except when you speak well of them. Never speak \r\n ill of others in their absence, nor level any accusation in their presence \r\n that you cannot prove.

Moreover, if you find people \r\n engaged in backbiting and you can neither get away from the scene, nor \r\n prevent others from backbiting, immediately begin to recite Istighfar \r\n (supplication seeking pardon from Allah).

Never try to find justification \r\n for your wrong actions. Having a relationship with others does not entitle \r\n you to violate their rights. On the contrary, because of this relationship, \r\n the action of violating their rights becomes even more grave.

[compiled from "Dying \r\n and Living for Allah" by Ustadh Khurram Murad, p. 49]