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From Issue: 517 [Read full issue]
Overcoming Your Hesitation to Help
You may suspect abuse is happening to a neighbour, friend or family member, but do not know what to do or how to talk about it. You may worry about making the situation worse, or be concerned about what to do. Here are some concerns you may have about whether you should help:
| Points of Concern | Points to Consider |
|---|---|
| You feel it's none of your business | It could be a matter of life or death. Violence is everyone's business |
| You don't know what to say | Saying you care and are concerned is a good start |
| You might make things worse | Doing nothing could make things worse |
| It's not serious enough to involve the police | Police are trained to respond and utilize other resources |
| You are afraid his violence will turn to you or your family | Speak to her alone. Let the police know if you receive threats |
| You think she doesn't really want to leave because she keeps coming back | She may not have had the support she needed |
| You are afraid she will become angry with you | Maybe, but she will know you care |
| You feel that both partners are your friends | One friend is being abused and lives in fear |
| You believe that if she wanted help, she would ask for it | She may be too afraid and ashamed to ask for help |
| You think it is a private matter | It isn't when someone is being hurt |
Compiled From:
"How You
can Identify
and Help
Women at
Risk of Abuse" - Neighbour, Friends and Families